Seeing what Whiskers posted below.. I’d like to draw your attention to a book called: Drop The Pink Elephant

In it.. the book describes what wrong things (pink elephants) people tend to say and how to avoid them. For example, “I’m sorry to call you, but if you could spare some time…..” If you were really sorry, you wouldn’t have called. So, save you and whoever you’re talking to the hassle, and the needlessness of pink elephants. Get the book…

Website link here.